Virginity is still a hot topic and attracts attention in various countries. For some women, being a virgin until marriage is a matter of pride that is held in high esteem.

In fact, there are several ways to predict whether a woman is still a virgin or not. After marriage, many women still want to maintain the sensation of firmness like a virgin in intimate relationships to make their partners happy. Therefore, many women are trying to restore their "virgin" status.

Come on, learn how to restore your virginity to normal in the article below.

What is Virginity and Hymen?

The hymen is a layer of tissue located at the opening of the vagina. The hymen certainly has a hole, because if not, menstrual blood will not be able to come out. In each woman, the hole in the hymen can have different sizes. However, in general, the hole in this membrane is the size of a finger. Apart from that, the thickness and elasticity are different. Some women have a thick hymen, but others have a thin layer.

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In fact, there are also women who do not have a hymen at birth. So, if a woman has a torn hymen, she cannot immediately be called not a virgin. This is because a more appropriate definition for loss of virginity is if a woman has vaginal sexual intercourse (the penis enters the vagina). 

Thus, it can be concluded that a person's virginity cannot be determined solely from an intact hymen but from the penetration process that has occurred previously. If part of the penis enters/exits the vagina, then based on this interpretation it can be said that a woman has lost her virginity.

Virginity and the hymen are often misunderstood in social and cultural contexts. It is important to understand that the hymen can also tear due to non-sexual activities such as exercise, tampon use, or accidents. Therefore, virginity should not be measured only by the condition of the hymen. A deeper and more scientific understanding of women's anatomy and the definition of virginity can help reduce stigma and misinformation that often harm women.

Characteristics of the Hymen Having Been Torn

Some signs of a torn hymen that you can feel or observe are as follows: 

• There is a small wound or bleeding occurs
• Discomfort or pain around the vaginal opening 
• Tears in the vaginal opening measuring around 1-2 cm. 

Some women may not notice or know that their hymen is torn. This is because the hymen can thin naturally over time.

However, there are several more specific signs of a torn hymen that could be an indication. For example, you may feel a burning or itching sensation in the area. Apart from that, changes in the structure or texture of the hymen can also be a sign. Light bleeding that occurs outside the menstrual cycle can also be an indicator.

If you really want to know more accurately whether the hymen has been torn or is still intact, you can check with a gynecologist. Examination by a medical professional will provide more definitive results and can also provide further explanation regarding your overall reproductive health condition. Don't hesitate to consult if you have further concerns or questions regarding the signs of a torn hymen.

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How to “Restore” Virginity

Here are some ways that are believed to restore a woman's virginity, although these have the potential to be dangerous to health.

1. Hymen Surgery

One reliable way to restore virginity is through hymen surgery. In this procedure, a team of experienced doctors will help the woman to restore the hymen. This is because the hymen is considered to determine whether a woman is still a virgin or not. 

So, this operation is the only option to restore virginity status. Of course, if you are considering having this surgery, it is very important to ensure you are under the care of a competent and experienced medical professional.

2. Virgin Pills

Virgin Pills is a type of pill that is different from herbal medicine. The difference is, this pill is inserted into the vaginal canal to provide direct benefits. The method is simple, just insert this pill into the vaginal canal five minutes before having sex. The pill will dissolve and provide a tight, fragrant effect and a virgin-like sensation.

However, please remember that currently there is no official health permit for this product which is sold by several online shops. Therefore, it is highly recommended to be careful and consult a doctor before using Virgin Pills, because every woman has a different level of vaginal sensitivity.

3. Herbal Drinks

There are several types of herbal drinks that can restore the firmness of female organs, such as Madura herbal medicine or herbal medicine mixed with maja fruit, turmeric, free-range chicken eggs, sandalwood, and the like. The thing you need to pay attention to when using these herbs is to ensure that the ingredients are 100% natural.

Because sometimes there are herbal medicine manufacturers who mix chemicals in their herbal products. Although these herbs cannot restore a woman's virginity with an intact hymen, they can make the intimate organs firmer, fragrant, and reduce excess mucus.

Watch the full video about “How to Tighten Miss V Like You're Still a Virgin“

Method Maintains Vaginal Elasticity

Apart from the previously mentioned ways to restore a woman's virginity, there are other options that you can consider. As an alternative, you can maintain vaginal elasticity by following these tips:

1. Do Kegel Exercises

One effective way to tighten the pelvic muscles, especially the vagina, is to do Kegel exercises regularly. The method is simple, just stretch the pelvic floor muscles for a few seconds, then relax for a few seconds. Repeat this movement 10-15 times in 3 sessions a day. You can do it either in a lying or standing position.

Do Kegel exercises with discipline and consistency to get optimal results. Apart from strengthening the pelvic muscles, this exercise can also help reduce the risk of urinary incontinence and increase sexual satisfaction. It is important to ensure that you perform the movements correctly. If necessary, consult a fitness professional or physiotherapist for proper guidance.

2. Orgasm

When experiencing orgasm, a woman's pelvic floor muscles are trained to contract and relax. By experiencing frequent orgasms, the muscles in a woman's pelvic floor become stronger. This situation also makes it easier for women to reach orgasm. Additionally, regular orgasms can improve blood circulation in the pelvic area, which contributes to overall reproductive health.

Pelvic floor muscle training through orgasm can also help prevent problems such as urinary incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse. More than that, orgasm can trigger the release of endorphins which function as natural stress relievers, thereby improving emotional and mental well-being. Thus, orgasm not only provides sexual satisfaction, but also has significant health benefits.

3. Glute Bridge

This movement is one of the easiest movements to help women get a more elastic vagina. You can do this movement starting with movement on a non-slip surface. The method is to lie down with your knees bent and stretched. Make sure your feet stick to the floor/ground well and place your hands at your sides. Slowly lift your pelvis off the floor to form a bridge. Hold the position for a few seconds and repeat this movement several times for each exercise.

This movement is known as the Glute Bridge, which is not only beneficial for vaginal elasticity, but also strengthens the gluteal muscles, lower back and hamstrings. For optimal results, do this movement regularly with varying intensity and duration. Additionally, make sure to regulate your breathing properly during exercise and avoid excessive strain on the neck and shoulders.

4. Medicine Ball Sit Up

This movement is basically the usual abdominal exercise, but done by holding the ball with both hands. Apart from helping tighten the vaginal muscles, this simple exercise is also useful for reducing fat in the stomach area. So that women can have a proportional and ideal stomach. 

This exercise is known as Medicine Ball Sit Ups. When doing Medicine Ball Sit Ups, it is important to maintain the correct body position so that maximum benefits can be felt. Start by lying on your back, knees bent, and ball held tightly in front of your chest. Raise your body to a sitting position while keeping the ball in place. 

This move not only works the abdominal muscles, but also improves stability and core strength. With a consistent routine, Medicine Ball Sit Ups can become an integral part of a comprehensive fitness program, helping to achieve optimal health and fitness.

That is some important information about the hymen and virginity. It should be understood that there are no natural methods that can restore virginity to its original state.

Read also: How to Maintain Menstrual Hygiene

References:

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